would love to follow the advice of “don’t stay in your head too much” but that’s made rather difficult by the fact that i LIVE in there!!!! where else do i go!!! get me OUT
Anya. aroace. Tumblr Oldie. Indian. Multi-fandom with a large focus on BBC Merlin and Asian dramas. Proceed at your own risk
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Hey! Just wanted to quickly post and say that I’m travelling right now so if I’m not responding to inbox/private messages it’s because of that! Don’t want anyone to think I am ignoring them!
the marketing for xo kitty being ridiculously heteronormative and then the show being extremely gay is so funny
i just think he’s neat dot meme
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- #tlou tv
[The song makes a 'boom' noise as the kid in the jersey points to his friend.]
Kid in jersey: Why're you calling me?
Friend: Bro, I'm gay.
Kid: Shut the fuck up.
Friend: I'm not lying....
Kid: Me too-
i've been in this website for too long that i knew what was gonna happen and i still loved it anyway
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- #vines
Why is it so hard for people to believe that other people have different preferences in life? I know I’m very ace but I’ve met allos who’ve told me they believe they can have a satisfying romantic relationship without sex, and yet other allos insist that sexual intimacy is 100% important for a relationship and that any allo who says otherwise is in an unhealthy relationship like… can we just acknowledge that relationships don’t always follow a particular formula? People do what suits them best and just because it’s different for YOU doesn’t mean you can determine what is and isn’t healthy for someone else if they’re both happy and content with the way their relationship works
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- #ace stuff
- #aroace tag
- #my best friend always worries she’s doing something wrong
- #because she doesn’t feel the need to constantly hang out with her husband
- #when they were doing long distance and sometimes they only spoke once a week and she was like we’re both happy with that
- #but other people make us think something is wrong with us because of it
- #like fuck ya’ll stop pushing your fake romantic ideals on other people
- #like I’m aroace and don’t want to be in a qpr even but
- #rankles me when people act like aces who are not aro can’t be with an allo
- #because they don’t give them what they need sexually or whatever
- #even if they HAVE sex they aren’t ATTRACted to them so it’s unfair
- #it’s all bullshit!!!!
- #different things work for different people
- #rant over lol sorry just needed to vent and this is my place to do it
aromantic and asexual people are not inherently "miserable" or "unhappier" than other people. we are not "missing out" on something- if we do not experience these feelings to begin with, we have nothing to "miss out" on. the only time that aromantic and asexual people are miserable is when we are forced into relationships or forced to believe we "need" to be in one to be complete. destroy this argument in your mind- aromantic and asexual people define our happiness. we are not inherently miserable, we are doing just fine






